LeazesMag 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 (edited) technically - all youve done is a little bit of window shopping but youve hit the nail on the head already - you and your lass and talking. Well its a little more than window shopping. I cant seem to talk to her about certain issues as I get a lot of blame when its not even my fault, or thats how it feels. I am shitting it if she is out tonight and pulls My life would be over tbh you're life won't be over and I'm sure you know that. We all know how you feel though. As for the habits of putting stuff away all the time it sounds pretty normal to me but thats no consolation either because it does my head in too when my missus behaves exactly the same. You've got to talk to her really and if she doesn't want to then it only really shows that there isn't any future. Hard to take but there's nowt else you can do. BTW, I think if you love her enough its worth telling her even if you go OTT and make yourself look a bit daft in the process, at least if you move on, you know you've done your best. And believe me, I speak from experience when I say this because on one occasion when I was younger I wished for ages that I had done precisely that. All the best [and I'm writing this with a few pages to read yet] Edited October 28, 2008 by LeazesMag Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Life 70 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 technically - all youve done is a little bit of window shopping but youve hit the nail on the head already - you and your lass and talking. Well its a little more than window shopping. I cant seem to talk to her about certain issues as I get a lot of blame when its not even my fault, or thats how it feels. I am shitting it if she is out tonight and pulls My life would be over tbh you're life won't be over and I'm sure you know that. We all know how you feel though. As for the habits of putting stuff away all the time it sounds pretty normal to me but thats no consolation either because it does my head in too when my missus behaves exactly the same. You've got to talk to her really and if she doesn't want to then it only really shows that there isn't any future. Hard to take but there's nowt else you can do. BTW, I think if you love her enough its worth telling her even if you go OTT and make yourself look a bit daft in the process, at least if you move on, you know you've done your best. And believe me, I speak from experience when I say this because on one occasion when I was younger I wished for ages that I had done precisely that. All the best When I look at a woman I see a time limit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChezGiven 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Does she/has she done any of these things in the past 1. Checks you mobile for txts & girls numbers 2. Questions you like a lawyer after you have had a night out with the lads 3. Keeps asking you the same questions over and over in a attempt to trip you up 4. Goes mental if you mention any of the birds at work/down the pub 5. Is constantly over your shoulder if you are on facebook asking the identity of any friend she doesnt know 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) If so mate then there will never be a future and you will live your life on the defensive all the time, My ex was just like that and after 7 years I had enough, fucked off to the other end of the country Good luck brother I think we've found a bigger muppet than Wyk. 7 years!!! Some of that sounds familiar to me too, even the 7 years bit. The thing about unhinged birds is that they are usually mentalists in the sack. Never has the phrase 'loves cock' been more apt as she was filth and i was a cock for staying with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaythesouthernmag 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Does she/has she done any of these things in the past 1. Checks you mobile for txts & girls numbers 2. Questions you like a lawyer after you have had a night out with the lads 3. Keeps asking you the same questions over and over in a attempt to trip you up 4. Goes mental if you mention any of the birds at work/down the pub 5. Is constantly over your shoulder if you are on facebook asking the identity of any friend she doesnt know 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) If so mate then there will never be a future and you will live your life on the defensive all the time, My ex was just like that and after 7 years I had enough, fucked off to the other end of the country Good luck brother I think we've found a bigger muppet than Wyk. 7 years!!! Fuck off cheese dick, WTF do you know. She was great for the first 5 years then just started to become a paranoid headcase Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Life 70 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Does she/has she done any of these things in the past 1. Checks you mobile for txts & girls numbers 2. Questions you like a lawyer after you have had a night out with the lads 3. Keeps asking you the same questions over and over in a attempt to trip you up 4. Goes mental if you mention any of the birds at work/down the pub 5. Is constantly over your shoulder if you are on facebook asking the identity of any friend she doesnt know 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) If so mate then there will never be a future and you will live your life on the defensive all the time, My ex was just like that and after 7 years I had enough, fucked off to the other end of the country Good luck brother I think we've found a bigger muppet than Wyk. 7 years!!! Some of that sounds familiar to me too, even the 7 years bit. The thing about unhinged birds is that they are usually mentalists in the sack. Never has the phrase 'loves cock' been more apt as she was filth and i was a cock for staying with her. This is true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Park Life 70 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Does she/has she done any of these things in the past 1. Checks you mobile for txts & girls numbers 2. Questions you like a lawyer after you have had a night out with the lads 3. Keeps asking you the same questions over and over in a attempt to trip you up 4. Goes mental if you mention any of the birds at work/down the pub 5. Is constantly over your shoulder if you are on facebook asking the identity of any friend she doesnt know 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) If so mate then there will never be a future and you will live your life on the defensive all the time, My ex was just like that and after 7 years I had enough, fucked off to the other end of the country Good luck brother I think we've found a bigger muppet than Wyk. 7 years!!! Fuck off cheese dick, WTF do you know. She was great for the first 5 years then just started to become a paranoid headcase I see a lot of pent up anger here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ketsbaia 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Sounds like it's over mate. She's acting like a paranoid, hypocritical bint so why not give her something to really kick off about? Shag the lass that you've been texting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeazesMag 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I sympathise, it seems like there were elements missing to your relationship and you've found comfort in the attentions of someone else, and when it comes to sex and affection: "the hungry must be fed". I'm not at all surprised at her reaction, but by perusing her you will probably drive her away, at times like this you are probably better to leave her to it until she either calms down or decides that enough is enough. Either way it seems your relationship was in a pretty shitty state anyway and although you feel the pain now it might be better in the long run if this is the end, I'm sorry for you if it is, but in my experience with relationships, the only cure for the last one, is the next one. agreed. Harsh, but maybe right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaythesouthernmag 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Does she/has she done any of these things in the past 1. Checks you mobile for txts & girls numbers 2. Questions you like a lawyer after you have had a night out with the lads 3. Keeps asking you the same questions over and over in a attempt to trip you up 4. Goes mental if you mention any of the birds at work/down the pub 5. Is constantly over your shoulder if you are on facebook asking the identity of any friend she doesnt know 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) If so mate then there will never be a future and you will live your life on the defensive all the time, My ex was just like that and after 7 years I had enough, fucked off to the other end of the country Good luck brother I think we've found a bigger muppet than Wyk. 7 years!!! Fuck off cheese dick, WTF do you know. She was great for the first 5 years then just started to become a paranoid headcase I see a lot of pent up anger here. Not anymore mate, that was 10 years ago and I`m with a great bird now and am well happy Can vouch for what Chez said, fuckin filthy bitch in the sack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alex Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 There's a lot of advice in here wyk. Some of it good, some of it shit. At the end of the day though you're probably the only person who knows whether or not this is salvageable, whether it's worth saving and whether or not you really truly want it enough. Or indeed whether you know if it really is over and time to start again. Good luck anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geordieboyo 0 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Has anyone suggested the threesome option yet? All Hockey girls want a bit of the fairer sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 16496 Posted October 28, 2008 Author Share Posted October 28, 2008 There's a lot of advice in here wyk. Some of it good, some of it shit. At the end of the day though you're probably the only person who knows whether or not this is salvageable, whether it's worth saving and whether or not you really truly want it enough. Or indeed whether you know if it really is over and time to start again. Good luck anyway. Indeed Alex mate Thanks all for the kind and not so kind words and also for making me laugh at the same time. Yes Ive let her walk all over me at times, well a lot of the time. Its a tough one I am afraid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusoda Kid 1 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Don't go into the next relationship and make a rod for your own back again, you sound the type. Much like one of my mates, had a bairn to this right twisted cow, she treat him like shit, he said he hated it, she fucked around behind his back, he left. Guess what? Got another bird and went straight down the same route again, pussy whipped! some blokes seem to like being the weaker partner in the set up. Give and take laddie, give and take... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest alex Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Very true though. You always think 'how the fuck did he end up with her?' then the same lad goes and repeats the exact same mistake with a very similar lass. Weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 16496 Posted October 28, 2008 Author Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 8949 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Mind you don't go the other way though. Bloke I know was on the receiving end of some pretty shitty behaviour and turned from pussy whipped whelp to a bit of a dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbo 133 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 Go out and buy yourself a white vest and case of Stella. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smooth Operator 10 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Can you PM me her number mate. TIA. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy 9 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Can you PM me her number mate. TIA. so you can send a pic of your cock dont do it wyki Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smooth Operator 10 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Can you PM me her number mate. TIA. so you can send a pic of your cock dont do it wyki Odds on he pm's me his number instead! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ewerk 26173 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I thought that. My gfriend (well soon to be ex IMO) is good looking a cracking body etc etc so ive prob been too soft. Can you PM me her number mate. TIA. so you can send a pic of your cock dont do it wyki Odds on he pm's me his number instead! Either way his lass will end up with the pic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 16496 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Share Posted October 29, 2008 Well went home tonight to get some stuff, she has wrote me a letter. Anyways, she was there and a little calmer. She broke down in tears again saying she loved me etc. Now, this is the bit I find hard. She says she does, well why doesnt she listen to me that I am not happy with XYZ and try and help me? Instead she heaps blame onto me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ketsbaia 0 Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 Cunt punt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemmill 34166 Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) You should have stopped wiping your arse when this started. "Find any spunk stains love? What's that? A foot long streak of shit, you say?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wykikitoon 16496 Posted October 29, 2008 Author Share Posted October 29, 2008 6. Checks your boxers for spunk stains (very worrying) You should have stopped wiping your arse when this started. "Find any spunk stains love? What's that? A foot long streak of shit, you say?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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