Alreet lads, been out and about the past couple of days and haven't had the chance to sit down and read through replies.
After thinking about it all i've decided to offer her the 'olive branch' on monday and if there's no chance of her meeting half way then i shall give her my notice and call it a day.
Like you guys have said, right now i've got the time and lack of major responsibility to recover should shit go tits up and it isn;t really an incentive to stay there and be walked over/miserable.
Ive moved my training to a weekend and all i'll be asking is to start and finish work 2 hours earlier on a monday so i can still do my football/see the mrs before she goes to work - though if it becomes necessary for me to stay for the extra 2 hours because of being busy then i shall do so at no extra charge. then i dont really mind about the rest of the week. Can't really see why she'd have an issue with it other than her being a massive thundercunt - but if the options are
1) do as we say and we give no wiggle room for you - continue to treat you like a cunt and you have no life
or
2) get the hell out of dodge and force myself into a better position, then that is what i'm going to do.
Funnily enough on friday i got home form work to two answerphone messages on me landline from 2 different companies i'd sent my c.v to saying they want to set up an interview next week - that kind of helped rest any issues i had about m 'emplyability' i know that neither of those jobs are guaranteed gets yet - but i can and will find other jobs should the need arise.
Also spoke to the mrs at length about what we actually wanted to do and where we wanted to be in the future and she admitted that this place was not really long term friendly and that at some point we should get out of dodge.
She's putting the last year or so into her nvq qualifications that the hospital she works at are paying to put her through, so we agreed that we should start hoarding a 'fuck you fund' between us for the forseeable future til she's got the funds saved then look at moving to somewhere with more opportunities. Also rang my extended family who all life up in Newcastle and asked about the possibility of when said time arrives, being put up between them until we got jobs and a place of our own up there and they seemed fairly warm to the idea, saying they were surprised we hadnt retreated back to the toon already as soon as my actual parents went off the rails and left us with no support down here.
All in all reading back my OP it seems fairly obvious that there was never really any other outcome than me gettign the hell out of there, and just thinking about it with a bit more clarity (not im angry at work and hate them so fuck off !) and actually making some kind of plan to try and follow just makes the whole damn thing seem trivial!
Cheers for your replies everyone, really appreciate the fact you's took the time to talk up a daft whinging 24 year old thatv you's don't really know. Top effort.
I'm off to me sunday league now - so i bid you all have a cracking sunday, and return in time to see us pull our hair out over the stoke game!
Alreet lads, been out and about the past couple of days and haven't had the chance to sit down and read through replies. After thinking about it all i've decided to offer her the 'olive branch' on monday and if there's no chance of her meeting half way then i shall give her my notice and call it a day. Like you guys have said, right now i've got the time and lack of major responsibility to recover should shit go tits up and it isn;t really an incentive to stay there and be walked over/miserable. Ive moved my training to a weekend and all i'll be asking is to start and finish work 2 hours earlier on a monday so i can still do my football/see the mrs before she goes to work - though if it becomes necessary for me to stay for the extra 2 hours because of being busy then i shall do so at no extra charge. then i dont really mind about the rest of the week. Can't really see why she'd have an issue with it other than her being a massive thundercunt - but if the options are 1) do as we say and we give no wiggle room for you - continue to treat you like a cunt and you have no life or 2) get the hell out of dodge and force myself into a better position, then that is what i'm going to do. Funnily enough on friday i got home form work to two answerphone messages on me landline from 2 different companies i'd sent my c.v to saying they want to set up an interview next week - that kind of helped rest any issues i had about m 'emplyability' i know that neither of those jobs are guaranteed gets yet - but i can and will find other jobs should the need arise. Also spoke to the mrs at length about what we actually wanted to do and where we wanted to be in the future and she admitted that this place was not really long term friendly and that at some point we should get out of dodge. She's putting the last year or so into her nvq qualifications that the hospital she works at are paying to put her through, so we agreed that we should start hoarding a 'fuck you fund' between us for the forseeable future til she's got the funds saved then look at moving to somewhere with more opportunities. Also rang my extended family who all life up in Newcastle and asked about the possibility of when said time arrives, being put up between them until we got jobs and a place of our own up there and they seemed fairly warm to the idea, saying they were surprised we hadnt retreated back to the toon already as soon as my actual parents went off the rails and left us with no support down here. All in all reading back my OP it seems fairly obvious that there was never really any other outcome than me gettign the hell out of there, and just thinking about it with a bit more clarity (not im angry at work and hate them so fuck off !) and actually making some kind of plan to try and follow just makes the whole damn thing seem trivial! Cheers for your replies everyone, really appreciate the fact you's took the time to talk up a daft whinging 24 year old thatv you's don't really know. Top effort. I'm off to me sunday league now - so i bid you all have a cracking sunday, and return in time to see us pull our hair out over the stoke game!