The Fish

anybody who posts on an internet message forum who thinks they know the answer to this is a fucking idiot. I include myself in that. the enemy can be anyone with a bomb, be they muslim, irish, christian, "british" or whatever. I do not think that we should apply laws and rules to our own military services that are not upheld by our enemies. like for like, eye ofr an eye etc. at the end of the day, as cruel and barbaric as it may seem, we've got more bombs. We can win if we play by their rules. But there is too much rolled up in playing by "humantarian" rules, which quite frankly will not work with the enemies that we are facing . this sin't a good thing, but it's true, negotiation won't work, neither will sanctions. do unto others... I'm terrified that this is the way we're heading

Oh my f*cking god that's painful!!! 144227[/snapback] was that wacky in a wig hugging Crouch at the end of that?

bunch of puffs if you ask me, how anyone is afraid of something so small is beyond me. I mean sure I swat spasmodically at wasps and bees and the like, but I'm trying not to get stung and get rid of something annoying. Spiders are a very neccesary creature, they get rid of the REALLY annoying things that plague a persons living space.

not only does it prepare you for questions like "Can I get a LArge quarter pounder meal with fries and a diet coke" but it also explains why they want the diet coke when the rest of the meal is so fat-batardy

the thing is, a lot of really useful and insightful psychology is hidden under popular beliefs about it and also some real hack-ery. my major problem with Psychology is that there is no definitive theory or answer. they say that the best thing is to take bits from the various theories and muddle along the best you can. It would be wrong to dismiss it though, a lot of extremely valuable lessons can be learnt from the study of behaviour and reasoning.

I know a little about phobias but I wouldn't dare to say what triggers them as it could be a myriad of events in the past. thing is the anxiety attacks are not phobic attacks, according to my tutor there are subtle differences between the attack I describe and the symptoms of phobias.

I've got no phobias that I know of. would quite fancy finding someone with panophobia, or phobophobia... I do get anxiety attacks in themeparks, but that's just a repurcussion of getting lost in Lightwater Valley when I was a kid. apart fromt hat there isn't anything that gives me the heeby jeebies

whey it's well known the the plane is a phallic symbol so TR might not actually be afraid of planes, it maybe a fear of the penis. she also said she doesn't like small places, so maybe it's something about her first sexual experience? the height thing could be anything really, but I'm going to suggest that perhaps her first sexual experience was with Peasepud, his cessna terrified her, and when he lay atop of her she felt like she the whole world was coming in around her ears.... .....maybe

if you only use psychology as a facet of the business then yeah you're not really going to break into the big money. But Psycho-Therapy is a rapidly expanding business in Europe and, in the States it's already firmly established. The costs are low, (you don't need a lot of materials ) once you're established you can pretty much charge what-ever you like. you can of course branch off into business if you want but the real progress is to be made with the private clients.

A winch? 143384[/snapback] I knew as soon as I submit that it would come back to bite me in the ass

no offense taken, was a light hearted jibe at my dad who light heaterdly likes to remind me how hard he works.

I think it's being blown out of all proportion tbh. is everybody telling me that they didn't want to move on to bigger and better things? I guess I've just got that kind of ambition. me and my dad have an awesome relationship, I just want to make him proud I guess.

nice read that in a birthday card? money might not maketh the man, but it sure as hell maketh life eathier, it's a sad fact but success is more and more measured upon the wonga in your wallet. anyhoo it's not like it's an all encompassing need, just a direction and it's not exactly a bad aim to have. surpass my dad? I'm sure he'd want me to do that aswell. Gem, He's not "on at me" but he does encourage and support me in surpassing him.

oh and p.s. it would take a lot for me to get on a ferry too... too many fucking prols for a start

aye but my underlying issue is having a positive effect. wanting to out-do me dad. I could have gone the other way and hidden in his shadow making the excuse that I could never outshine him. bollocks to that, I'm better than him, just need the pay-packet to prove it and Gemmil's right, I'll wager the hypnotherapist never suggested getting off her tits before climbing aboard.

Thanks... you're a big help bliddy women. to go to a hypnotherapist for 5 sessions, then throw stuff down your throat pre-flight makes me guess that she never really believed in the hypnotherapy, nor that she could fly. one of those people who cut their nose off to spite their face tbh. but obviously I don't know her so I.. could be wrong. (doubt it though )

TR it could be something massive, some horrific incident from your past that has manifest as some fear of closed spaces... or it could be nowt. either way it's best to get it sorted. Some Hypnotherapists won't even sit you down for a session, just give you a few breathing exercises to do pre-flight and tell you to fuck off and stop wasting their time the only reason I wanted to get shot of the procrastination demon is that I want to earn more than me dad... and he's one of those annoying bastards who's worked hard every day of his life.. you know the type, 28 hours down the pit a day 9 days a weeks, paying pit owner for the privilege.. tosser

now if that were true you wouldn't persist in pushing this rediculous "He's a fat porker" rumour around, now would you. sisters got his book mind. mam and dad got her it for Xmas, there's a photo of her moo-ing on a slab of Xmas cake while flicking through the pages. I was pissing myself laughing tbf Hypnotherapists can be dodgey but if they're accredited and don't make any wild promises they can be a massively effective way of breaking past any psychological barriers you've created for yourself. I was contemplating going to a Hypnotherapist to help with dealing with my lack of focus and determination. couldn't afford it though, £40 a session on a students pay is too much

T-R have you tried hypnotherapy to get rid of your phobia? that hypnotist off the tele has self help tapes and books that could be of assistance aswell. not Derren BRown... what's his fucking name man! PAUL Mc-fucking-Kenna... that's the bugger

how very convenient

strange how Renton hasn't backed up his wild claim. getting more and more like Rob W every day tbh

neophyte don't worry, you are young, but you will learn. just don't drink wine to get hammered, it really adds to a good meal, especially if you know enough about the stuff to get complimentary flavours. if I drink too much red wine it gives me a stonking hangover though

...urge? good god woman tek a trip to Anne Summers shop, you're like a... well you're like a cross between jimbo and brock! also the wine taste thing, you can even feel the texture of the drink is different, red wines are generally heavier, thicker on the tongue, more tannin(sp?)-ey

...makes you what??

... most people cannot tell the difference between white and red wine under these circumstances.... 143259[/snapback] bollocks