Toonraider

Let's hope there are still some around! As for the low-cut top thing? I look stupid in high-necked tops/t-shirts and always wear v-necked or low'ish cut tops. It's not inviting blokes to stare at my cleavage it's because it's comfortable and it suits me. Yers, I am blessed in the cleavage department etc but it's not an open invite for blokes to talk to them! In the case of the 3-year old passing comment - I'd have found it hilarious! 20123[/snapback] yes me too, my little nephew used to lay his head on mine and call them his pillow 20125[/snapback] Typical ! if a 3 yearold does it its cute, if a 31 yearold does it he's a perv ! 20132[/snapback] Not always so

Let's hope there are still some around! As for the low-cut top thing? I look stupid in high-necked tops/t-shirts and always wear v-necked or low'ish cut tops. It's not inviting blokes to stare at my cleavage it's because it's comfortable and it suits me. Yers, I am blessed in the cleavage department etc but it's not an open invite for blokes to talk to them! In the case of the 3-year old passing comment - I'd have found it hilarious! 20123[/snapback] yes me too, my little nephew used to lay his head on mine and call them his pillow

Whack them in here. I feel in a much better mood thanks to you and Rob w and the chaps. Ask Away 20095[/snapback] ohh you have opened pandoras box now!!! I have many questions but i need to think, but off the top of my head heres the first one.... Why do so many men leave their woman once they get to a 'certain age?' You often hear they have been fooling around with a younger girl. Why? Is it so important? Surely love and closeness mean far more than how young a person looks? 20107[/snapback] Thats the difference between love and lust. 20109[/snapback] Oh really? then how come alot of men seem to be in 'love' untill their lady reaches 40+ say, then they 'lust' after someone else? normally younger! 20113[/snapback] Was it "love" in the first place ? or is it the thought of a pert young pair of boobs against the thought of a saggy pair of spaniels ears ? Damn, here we go again.... 20118[/snapback] I think you have hit the nail on the head jimbo! Though im sure there are many men who are not so shallow as this!

And a ruler is really a rule!

Whack them in here. I feel in a much better mood thanks to you and Rob w and the chaps. Ask Away 20095[/snapback] ohh you have opened pandoras box now!!! I have many questions but i need to think, but off the top of my head heres the first one.... Why do so many men leave their woman once they get to a 'certain age?' You often hear they have been fooling around with a younger girl. Why? Is it so important? Surely love and closeness mean far more than how young a person looks? 20107[/snapback] Thats the difference between love and lust. 20109[/snapback] Oh really? then how come alot of men seem to be in 'love' untill their lady reaches 40+ say, then they 'lust' after someone else? normally younger!

Whack them in here. I feel in a much better mood thanks to you and Rob w and the chaps. Ask Away 20095[/snapback] ohh you have opened pandoras box now!!! I have many questions but i need to think, but off the top of my head heres the first one.... Why do so many men leave their woman once they get to a 'certain age?' You often hear they have been fooling around with a younger girl. Why? Is it so important? Surely love and closeness mean far more than how young a person looks?

Not at the moment, I can't type quick enough one handed........ 20094[/snapback] LOL you need more practice

you'd be much more likely to see me in a football shirt 20086[/snapback] That does it for me too. 20090[/snapback] I cant win Football shirts arent very flattering on woman i dont think, but i couldnt care less, its my favourite item of clothing!

LOL jimbo, not the tissues again? Anymore questions? I must do a thread later of some questions id like answered!!

you'd be much more likely to see me in a football shirt

well thats just where you're wrong!

I cant answer for the other females on here but here are my answers jimbo 1. I'd say if a woman wears a low cut top it must be obvious to her that men will look, maybe she doesnt want that as such, but doesnt really care if they look or not? Its her prerogative to wear what she likes, especially in hot weather when you dont want high neck tops on. but as for the lady getting upset last night, sounds like she was over-reacting, especially as the comment was from a child. I dont tend to wear tops that are too low as im quite big breasted and i dont want to draw attention to myself that way! If i had a smaller chest i'd like to wear more flimsy low tops without falling out of them as i would now 2. Im not offended at all if i see a man ogling my breasts, im used to it! I suppose it is a compliment, whats wrong with feeling attractive to the opposite sex?

I do that but only when we win Is it coincidence I haven't seen one in ages? 19967[/snapback] I keep seeing just one No wonder we are so shite this season. 20047[/snapback] I had two lovely magpies who often visited the garden at work. I loved them. Then one died, just dropped dead out of the tree and i had to remove it Since then the other one is often sat under the tree or around the garden, he never goes far, i think they mate for life and it breaks my heart to see him alone and looking for his loved one. Im very superstitious too and i always seem to see him before we have a match Anyhow yesterday as i left work, i saw my magpie as usual sat on the wall, but then two more appeared in the garden together, maybe this was a good sign?

Nowt, cause you most probably have said it first! 20043[/snapback] You took the words right out of my mouth matty, or sima has!

just noticed your post count you joined yesterday and have done 155 and counting....i wonder if this is a record!!

Its often easier to talk to people you dont know than those that are closest to you. You can have a real good rant and rave on here to us all anytime!

Ok, you're obviously mad/upset about this, would you like to explain abit more fully, because im confused (it doesnt take much)! 19960[/snapback] Sister died in December from cancer. About 12 months prior she went to a spiritualist and the spiritualist told her the cancer all being down the right side of her bodywas because of maternal rejection. When my sister said she didnt remember this the spiritualist said she could do hypnotherapy sessions to bring back suppressed memories. Lo and behold after a month she remembered being abandoned at grandmas for 6 months while mum and dad got divorced and she moved in with new husband. Unfortunately she only told her daughters and husband this and didnt manage to spaek to me or my other sister who were there at the time about it because funnily enough we don't remember that either. So either we all have supressed memory and have replaced that with a false one of us all going with mum straight to new husbands house (Who is a great bloke and raised us all as his own and all our kids call grandad) or what I believe that this rejection didn't bloody happen and said hypnotherapy was planting shitty false memories so this spiritualist could prove she was right. Now Sisters husband and 2 kids hate my mum cos they blame her for my sisters death. 19986[/snapback] What a sad story, so now your late sister's kids have nothing to do with their grandma? I think people who are under great stress and worry, like your sister obviously was, often seek reassurance and answers from mediums, spiritualists and the like. Some find peace from this but it can be very dangerous and often false. Was your sister older than you? maybe she was sent to her grandmas at the time and you were too young too remember it? But that in no way means she was abandoned or loved any less by your mum and to be told its the cause of her cancer is very wrong. I suppose all you can do now is keep in touch with your sisters family and hope in time they will come round and see how unreasonable this is. Dont forget their grief (like yours must be) is still very recent and raw.

Ok, you're obviously mad/upset about this, would you like to explain abit more fully, because im confused (it doesnt take much)!

Fact of the day: the plural of octopus is octopi. 19790[/snapback] Thank you very much for correcting me

I think the type of girls who go for quick chat up lines are perhaps just on the look out for a bit of fun and dont really care who the guy is! I suppose im saying they are shallow and lets say, not super intelligent! (i know, im being stereotypical)! Im the type who isnt impressed by men with all the 'smooth talk' and chat up lines, infact im suspicious of men like that I think woman prefer a man who can just chat normally and make them laugh That isnt to say we dont like recieving the odd compliment of course 19486[/snapback] So what do you expect a lad to say when he comes up to you. I would offer a drink if wasnt a cheap twat. I think chat up lines are funny, I sometimes try them as a joke. 19522[/snapback] Normally, Hi, wheres your son tonight? LOL OK, just a normal conversation would do! Hi, can i sit here/chat to you/buy you a drink? my names ...., Much better than corny chat up lines that have been used over and over again, so unoriginal.

You're not missing a lot to be honest. I'm the only one worth talking to. 19003[/snapback] Is that cos you're the only ginner? I do come up to Newcastle a few times each year, i stay for the weekend normally. I'll make sure my friend and i put in an appearance next time and have a drink with you all.

okey dokey, kettle on the boil and i have McVities choccy digestives to share around

I think the type of girls who go for quick chat up lines are perhaps just on the look out for a bit of fun and dont really care who the guy is! I suppose im saying they are shallow and lets say, not super intelligent! (i know, im being stereotypical)! Im the type who isnt impressed by men with all the 'smooth talk' and chat up lines, infact im suspicious of men like that I think woman prefer a man who can just chat normally and make them laugh That isnt to say we dont like recieving the odd compliment of course

What are you up to this Bank holiday weekend? going anywhere special? No work untill Wed night now for me Im off out for a shop/drink with my mate at 5 today. Then i shall relax tomorrow and watch the toon on sunday (dreading it really) Everyone descends on my house when the toon are live on sky and takes the piss out of me But i dont care, both my teams are shite but i love then anyway. Off to Hednesford racing on monday, long day for us but really looking forwards to hopefully kicking some ass!!

yes he does, mind you, i couldnt care less what he looks like as long as he can score us some goals! 19312[/snapback] hmm that's a big 'as long as' though isnt it 19314[/snapback] yep! and he wont score unless he gets some decent service.