Tom 14011 Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 A choc ice then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 7, 2009 Author Share Posted May 7, 2009 I definitely couldnt say I feined my love of football for my man's sake...he HATES it I can only speak for my hubby, (and we've been together 27 years) Quite simply what he wants is someone to love him, share things with him and support him. I do cook and clean for him and look after him I suppose but it isnt a chore (well most of the time it isnt)! But equally he does things for me...I never want for anything, he treats me as his equal, he never questions what I do...we respect each other and acknowledge the fact that we have some seperate interests. As you get older things get easier I think, we are both strong minded people and just sometimes have to agree to disagree on certain subjects. That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammynb 3342 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! Oh no you don't! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy 17 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 I definitely couldnt say I feined my love of football for my man's sake...he HATES it I can only speak for my hubby, (and we've been together 27 years) Quite simply what he wants is someone to love him, share things with him and support him. I do cook and clean for him and look after him I suppose but it isnt a chore (well most of the time it isnt)! But equally he does things for me...I never want for anything, he treats me as his equal, he never questions what I do...we respect each other and acknowledge the fact that we have some seperate interests. As you get older things get easier I think, we are both strong minded people and just sometimes have to agree to disagree on certain subjects. That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fish 10659 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Stevie Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 I definitely couldnt say I feined my love of football for my man's sake...he HATES it I can only speak for my hubby, (and we've been together 27 years) Quite simply what he wants is someone to love him, share things with him and support him. I do cook and clean for him and look after him I suppose but it isnt a chore (well most of the time it isnt)! But equally he does things for me...I never want for anything, he treats me as his equal, he never questions what I do...we respect each other and acknowledge the fact that we have some seperate interests. As you get older things get easier I think, we are both strong minded people and just sometimes have to agree to disagree on certain subjects. That's good of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toonraider 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 I definitely couldnt say I feined my love of football for my man's sake...he HATES it I can only speak for my hubby, (and we've been together 27 years) Quite simply what he wants is someone to love him, share things with him and support him. I do cook and clean for him and look after him I suppose but it isnt a chore (well most of the time it isnt)! But equally he does things for me...I never want for anything, he treats me as his equal, he never questions what I do...we respect each other and acknowledge the fact that we have some seperate interests. As you get older things get easier I think, we are both strong minded people and just sometimes have to agree to disagree on certain subjects. That's good of him. Shhh! You know what I mean. I've been mulling this over and I have come to the conclusion that in a nutshell, what a man wants is just a peaceful simple life! I bet if I asked hubby he'd say as long as he had a home, food, sex and enough money to live and do his racing and have a few pints when he liked he's quite content Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy 17 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 i'll be soppy, men want to be happy, (oh and nice fresh sheets ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 i'll be soppy, men want to be happy, (oh and nice fresh sheets ) piss off and stop copying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 bad day hon? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy 17 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 busy bloody day!! and am knackered now, want me pit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChezGiven 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Douggy B 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 shit thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. I could hardly be described as a snake - but I do have tits Don't all PM me at once, my inbox (he he) is kind of full now, I may need to delete a few before yours will be accepted.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChezGiven 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. I could hardly be described as a snake - but I do have tits Don't all PM me at once, my inbox (he he) is kind of full now, I may need to delete a few before yours will be accepted.... Marry me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 shit thread. my standard answer - fuck off then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. I could hardly be described as a snake - but I do have tits Don't all PM me at once, my inbox (he he) is kind of full now, I may need to delete a few before yours will be accepted.... Marry me. fully booked this week, have your people call my people and we'll see what we can do. ciao. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy 17 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 nipples the size of fookin dinner plates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 nipples the size of fookin dinner plates a fella should always have a good meal on his plate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChezGiven 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 Not sure which is worse, that photo or insinuating someone's mum or dad is having an affair because they dont argue. Smut, either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 (edited) Not sure which is worse, that photo or insinuating someone's mum or dad is having an affair because they dont argue. Smut, either way. I know, how bad am i? eeeee! I've dropped right down to this lots general level. i feel so liberated. p.s. you starting to worry bout your folks now? huh huh huh? oh oh oh and I love that word smut. smut smut smut, doesn't it just feel good in a naughty way when you say it?! Edited May 8, 2009 by soccermom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbo 172 Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. I could hardly be described as a snake - but I do have tits Don't all PM me at once, my inbox (he he) is kind of full now, I may need to delete a few before yours will be accepted.... Is that a rogue piece of Spinach on your left nork ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soccermom 0 Posted May 8, 2009 Author Share Posted May 8, 2009 That's really good. I don't pretend to be interested, I am genuinely interested in the game when he's playing, but not so much tv stuff. Like to know the score at the end but couldn't be arsed to watch it, obv unless its a big match ( and its in a pub ), not that we're gonna be in any big'uns for a while now. Just felt a bit guilty for not being that interested in something he's majorly passionate about. We share interests in lots of other thing and socialise seperately and together and argue and disagree like any other couple. I'm of the opinion that couples who say they don't argue are in major trouble and one of them is seriously unhappy. Just cos you love someone doesn't mean you have to agree with them. Like you say on occasion you have to agree to disagree and thats fantastic, and healthy. It also shows that the relationship still has passion in it and you've not given up on who you are as an individual. Just really wish i could read his bloody mind at times! That's utter shite peddled by women who're so misdirected by bloody soap operas, they believe it's not possible to have a melodrama-free relationship. My mam and dad have been married for over 35 years and I've been around for 27 of them and can swear on whatever you like they've never had an argument. They might disagree, they might get frustrated with each other, but they don't need to have a petulant fight about it, they just resolve it. They're both individuals and it's fucking revolting how in love they are with each other. I know a couple of my mates parents are roughly in the same boat, so what you've said is cock of the poppiest variety. The parents of friends who do have the arguments are also the parents of friends whose home life hasn't been the best, and who've been through more shitty relationships than I can count. Of course there's middle ground, but having arguments is no more healthy than being dishonest. If you're honest with your partner, 90% of the petty shit won't crop up, and the bedrock is sound for when the actual, honest to goodness drama occurs. Personally, I've had plenty of relationships where the girl has come home with a raging blob on and taken it out on me just because she's a mardy cow, those ones don't last. I've also had passionate relationships without any petty arguments ruining them. I've found that the difference between a happy thing and a crappy thing is the level of honesty. (by the by, you can be honest without having an argument.) p.s. I've never EVER heard a bloke say that every relationship needs an argument or two, only ever women. Now what does that tell you? p.p.s I'd say you had a fight with your fella, came on here looking to get sympathy, but five'll get you ten that's it's your own bloody fault the argument happened in the first place. We haven't had a fight. he's done nowt wrong today Two different people should disagree at times, cos they're DIFFERENT, duh. Bollocks one of your parents is rolling over and playing dead just for a fucking quiet life. .....or may be one of them is just agreeing cos they're fucking the life out of someone else quietly! Never has the phrase 'snakes with tits' been so apt. I could hardly be described as a snake - but I do have tits Don't all PM me at once, my inbox (he he) is kind of full now, I may need to delete a few before yours will be accepted.... Is that a rogue piece of Spinach on your left nork ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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