trophyshy

like ships passing in the mist.... it's likely we'll collide and sink (a few), maybe at the cost of some semen...

Alright thats happened to me too, I had a Kurt Cobain esque long blonde bob in the ealry nineties...was very useful for getting picked up while hitching round Oz....disappointed a few truckers but they always let me in. And no, I didn't fuck any of them. Shall we make this the trophyshy thread of shame?

in London? FFS. I'm on the train to Newcastle 5 pm on Thursday.

Question is, if she (he) was fit as f*ck and had had the op would you still have gone through with it knowing that it was really a fella? Well that's an interesting question for sure. Some of these trans-gender people apparently 'feel' the other sex all their lives and view it as corrective treatment/surgery to align their body to what they know in their mind. Some sort of embryonic hormonal/developmental fuck up perhaps? She was a nice girl, but I think at 18 it was way too mind bending, these days I'm probably more open minded. It'd be another part of life's rich experience to chalk off wouldn't it? Check out the good doctors work and all that? Not that I'm gonna actively seek it out like, not that there's anything wrong with that. Long time dead and all that.

fixed it for you

happened to me when I was a very young lad...she was gorgeous....just getting down to it and she goes 'I've got something to tell you'. Was a few weeks from having the operation apparently, had chebs and was very feminised. I was only 18 and as green as frozen peas. Split my heed for a day or two... on reflection she did have quite big hands like.

change the name of this site to spudtastic tbh.

I think I'm going to have to retire the Ruud pic as my thread-spoiler of choice. what Ruud pic? Well if you absolutely insist... oh lol was thinking Gullit for some reason.

Best keeper in the premiership I.M.H.O[ i know you've only got 9 posts under your belt but already i can see you know your stuff 9 posts but enough font to baptise the whole of Ireland.

I think I'm going to have to retire the Ruud pic as my thread-spoiler of choice. what Ruud pic?

FYP

Really sorry to hear about this paddy but no matter how much it hurts you always have to make all your decisions based on what is best for the kids. Time will sort the rest of the mess out. Good luck What if these aren't compatible? Is it better both parents staying together for the benefit of the kids but being bitter, resentful and unhappy? Or is it better for all concerned if the family split, but the parents find happiness with someone else? Is a kid brought up by a warring couple any better off than one brought up by happy single parents? Almost certainly worse off imho. The affect it has upon your perception, and therefore acting out, of adult relationships is untold.

I think you'll find that's a clit, not a dick.

14 year old lads have nay sense, ran over one myself who bolted from a fight, right by the road. had zero chance to not hit. lucky none of us died. 14 is the new 27.

Paddy don't write off house sharing on the strength of one shithole.... I came out of a 4 year (permanently together) relationship at the end of last year and sharing has probably saved me from some serious self abuse. Of course, that's me like. Just saying.

Howay man, just had me fucken scran!

ffs will to live sapping away...

my cock is bigger than your cock etc etc etc. fucking grow up people.

I've done a fair bit of this and it's a double edge sword. living with others can be great if you want a bit of company now and then, although clearly if you don't know who you're moving in with you are in the lap of the gods. Some people live vicariously through their housemates and others are party animals who never come down, most people, fortunately, are between the two. Living with friends can be challenging, as can living in someone else's own house where you feel like an accessory rather than having equal rights. I strongly recommend you don't do the latter. Get somewhere where everyone is equal(ish) People's habits can be awful, but if it looks and smells clean when you walk in you should be alright. Funnily enough living with females can really help in this area. Make sure you get somewhere with a shared lounge, some particularly ruthless types forego this and turn it into another bedroom. You need neutral space that's not the kitchen. Dunno if you're a smoker but I now find people smoking indoors really weird as it never happens anywhere else now.....worth considering either way. Make sure decent arrangements are in place for housework, always the biggest gripe. get a room at the top of the house to minimise disturbance. make sure you find out all additional costs up front. If anything else occurs to me I'll add. oh and keep a knife under yer pillow, just in case. happy hunting mate.

good luck sorting it all out paddy. life can be a right fucking pain in the arse, eh?

No one can eat fifty eggs. RIP