Thanks. It's mostly a family thing. My parents are divorced, I have a gay family member, my parents didn't go to university. Also, I'm not religious (not that they are really). That's pretty much the worst combination of things that they could imagine. They're from India originally where the family is very important, especially the male's family (because the women essentially marry into that family). I can see why she'd have objections. I had hoped that they would have disappeared now that she's met me many times and I've been going out with her daughter for over a year.